This is how the laws of attraction work.  When men innocuously treat love with respect and own up to wanting a relationship with a woman... they find you less appealing, too easy, a push-over.   Then when you are finally broken, become fiercely independent and desire your freedom... well the women come out of the woodwork, they find you hot.  They find you sexy.  They find you better than other men.  They find you complete them...  Oh...

This song comes from Lloyd Cole's 91' release, Don't Get Weird On Me Babe.  I put this album in my MUST HAVE collection if I'm left alone on this world after a nuclear Holocaust, or stranded on a desert island with electricity. LOL  One day I'll write a review on the song, Man Enough which is one of my personal favs.  It's also a great message song.  It's about someone that dated all the worst and feels they've made it to the best.  See... I'm not void of romance!

So here I pay tribute to the laws of attraction with Lloyd Cole's, She's A Girl And I'm A Man.

He said she didn't understand and so she guessed he was deep
He swore he'd never been to college and was too tall to be
So as she led him to the slaughter
Thinking she'd be laughing last

Now the lady in the question is his better half
She's gotta be the stupidest girl I've ever seen
She don't care who, why, where I've been
She's got a right to be, with all that's wrong with me

But she doesn't wanna understand that she's a girl and I'm a man
He thought that women and drink would make a man out of him
But the extent of his studies left a jaded man
So ...   more »