Lately I've been receiving a lot of e-mail from recently separated men going into divorce.  It's never good to see.  Just as many have kids and this really tears me up.  I've been there and walked that road.  As I've honestly and genuinely come out of divorce with a better life, I do feel an obligation to other men, to share how we as men can get over divorce. 

For starters you should read my article: A Man's Guide to Divorce - A Man's Guide to Separation if you have not already.  Most men that find me have generally googled something regarding divorce and found me through this article.

I also have a complete section here on labeled: Men's Help.

The reality is for us men, there are few resources.  And most web based resources ultimately bash women in order to raise our self-esteem and while that is certainly a solution it's negative energy. In fact one blog I found and made contact with seems to be at odds with itself in trying to take my positive approach while still dealing with it's resentment towards women.  http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.com/  The fact is I think this guy digs up some amazing stuff that has merit but he walks a razors edge when it comes to lumping all women into one group.  Read his blog with care and use your moral compass to guide you as you make your own decisions in what he writes. 

Guys, we should never forget that women are beautiful creatures and worth our love, the fact you have been dumped or abused or whatever is not an indictment of all women. 

You will undoubtedly search the web for answers, you can look for books on the subject high and low.   There is ultimately one answer.  You.  Your self esteem.  You ...   more »