Men Always Learn Too Late
by
Lars Hindsley
on Thu 21 Feb 2008 05:00 AM EST
I get a lot of advice from people. But you know... it is advice after the fact. People often never want to get involved, don't want to testify against "old" friends or want to be responsible for affecting others lives because they don't want to "take sides" and the list goes on. It's funny how no one tells you anything until it's too late.
While I understand divorce and game playing can work two ways, the cards are stacked against men. They just are. I'm sorry, I'm not trying to come off as women bashing or anti-women. That is far far from the case. The problem currently is that we as a society want to protect women at every turn and a beauty and tears have a major impact on courts.
Read this story.... get into the third paragraph about this man and you will know the true pain of so many men in divorce. The percentages don't lie. Many many men don't look to marry for any other reason than to have a best friend for life. When a man like this marries a woman of "practical" means, he is in for a rude awakening one day.
The TWO stories below reflect the feelings of men everywhere. What you should draw from this article is the astounding parallels in every case. What is most striking is how these women "switch off". They decide they are out, and a lifetime if history with these men is meaningless. The only thing they have on their mind is "winning" and "destroying" the man they once loved. It's not pretty.
Read this reprinted article with care. I've found my own situation playing out in the lives of these other men discussed in the article below.
Sudden Divorce Syndrome
Divorce may be the worst ... more »
