I'm a single parent. Life for a single parent can be good or bad, it is what you make it. I stay positive here despite any misgivings I have towards certain people in my past. Because I am a single parent and always look to improve my abilities, perspective and understanding, I research this field.
Last night I found a blog by a guy that is titled: WHAT MEN THINK OF WOMEN and wow... It really put my own blog and topics (when visting the subject of women) into a new perspective. Let me clarify, while I've complained about a personal experience and being a victim, he has decided flat out women are wrong. I contrast in a positive light to this guy even if he is full of facts and documentation.
It's sad that we can't just learn from a bad apple and move on. Take for example my own situation. Remember, despite what happened to me, I still think marriage is a wonderful thing, women are great and that a good woman makes any man a better man and I think that works both ways. For those of you that wonder... "OK if you don't have an ax to grind with your own ex, why no photos?" Well, its been demanded I take them down or I'd be sued. For what I don't know. But I took them down. Mind you, no photos of us in bed or anything degrading. I've been bulled into taking down photos I had up for years from a baby shower I threw for her, to us on the beach smiling and photos with our child. Believe me folks... the sadness doesn't end there. But you JUST MOVE ON. Which is what I think this guy needs to do.
I was bouncing this article off of someone before posting and they said, "For every guy site that hates women, there are women sites that hate men." I stopped suddenly... You miss the point. This guy doesn't hate women, he is studying them and feels they are wrong. It's a site about criticisms and although he intends no malice, I can see there is. In the case of many womens sites... they make no bones about it, they hate men. So consider this... men that put up sites like this are people fighting back. Maybe fruitlessly and for the wrong reasons but it is a defensive posture in reality. Face it, I could have fallen victim to this same life. I am not some loser divorcee without anyone to love. I didn't decide I hated women and that I could do it alone. Read this guys blogs where he illustrates scores of facts and one thing he does do right is make the case that children of broken homes or single parent households have the odds stacked against them. Despite his bad attitude it makes a great case for marriage.
I have to say, for all you men that hate women or feel women are not as good as men... you will have a field day on this site. I almost hate to give this guy a push. But here is the link... visit and read it extensively if you dare.
His opening statement reads:
Comprehensive assessment on women. Their behavior, victim hood, unaccountability and their suffering under the "Privileged Princess" syndrome. Their blatantly sexist "affirmative action" entitlement, ensuring they are employed before males regardless of ability or talent. "All women have done the last 30 years is to prove men were right for the last 30 generations"
http://whatmenthinkofwomen.blogspot.com/2007/05/women-make-lousy-single-parent.html
But for those of that love and respect women... you should not let what this man says skew your opinion of women. I will however yield to his documented research studies. I mean... there is always some truth in a lie. The best liars use the truth. I've witnessed that first hand.
Or of course good liars do what Hitler did... they tell "The Big Lie". If you are not familiar with The Big Lie, it is a lying technique. You tell such a big lie that the audience accepts it based in its magnitude.



