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Secrets

by Lars Hindsley on Wed 23 Jan 2008 07:00 AM EST | Permanent Link | Cosmos

Do you have any secrets? We all have them. Imagine things about yourself that no one should know. Wow... that is a subject that should hit home with every one of you today.

And it is true isn't it? Think of the one thing you wouldn't want anyone to know? It could be even more than one thing.

Now imagine that gets out to someone you hate! Imagine they know those secrets. What would happen in your life if your worst secrets got out to the wrong people?

Life is like that. It's always the last people in the world you'd want knowing your secrets that end up with them. Life is so ironic. There is an old saying... keep your friends close and your enemies closer. I've learned that first hand in my life I'll tell ya! LOL.

I recall a couple years ago a guy I knew wanted me to go do something somewhere that if I were single, I suppose would draw a laugh from buddies over a poker game, but at the time I was separated and knew that should I do anything I wouldn't be proud of in the midst of anyone I knew... It could come back to haunt me. So as badly as I thought I deserved to cut loose, I kept my wits about me and made the rational decision to understand... "this friend could be my enemy tomorrow, and would I want him to know any dark secret of mine?" The answer was "No way!" I'm happy to say for all my desires and needs unfulfilled in my life... The secrets I'm not proud of... my adversaries in life already know. LOL

While me on the other hand. I've carried some secrets for a long time and will continue to do so until the time comes to use what I know.

And that is why I'm writing this advice today. We all have secrets. You and I both. A secret once told to anyone is a risk. It will always be a opportunity for someone to do you in should you not be worthy of the people in your life. So my advice to you friends... Keep your mouth shut. Your mouth is your own worst enemy. And further more we are all geniuses until we open our mouth. The less you say, the smarter you are... and in the case of my tale here, the less you say the safer and smarter you are.

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