What is it that we all yearn for in our lives?  The answer, control.  We are all just one breath away from losing everything from our health and jobs to love.  Things are so fragile and we long to control our destiny.  Why else do we try and earn money?  To ensure our future, to give us control over it.

For many of us we can't let go.  And why should we?  

We all have an agenda.  We live our lives by our desires and needs.  Morality plays some part for some of us while with others, there are no rules in getting from point A. to point B. 

All of these lives are points in time crossing each other affecting the control of others over each others destiny.   A car crash could mean a love one doesn't come home today.  A heart attack could leave the breadwinner of a family out of work affecting everyone while opening a path for someone else.

In my life I admit I cannot control everything.   You can't make a woman love you but you can put yourself in her path to find you.  In that you force fate.  While I work hard to support my children and work to live, I don't allow the lack of control in some areas to affect the happiness I seek. 

We all look to the future with very little consideration.   Some of us have well laid out plans.  Some of us have an agenda that everyone around is are merely pawns.  But in the end, the future has the last laugh.