I just read this article on CNN.com about divorce. 

http://www.cnn.com/2008/LIVING/personal/03/18/divorce.celebrations/index.html

No offense folks but divorce is taken way too lightly.

I was at family court the other day and a guy was in tears because his wife had him arrested for calling home during separation to speak to his kids.  He wants to reconcile despite his wife being mean and selfish because they have children.  Sound familiar?

Look, not all women are bad, not all men are good. I get that.  I know that.  But time and again I am seeing a trend, AN INCREASING TREND that women are exiting relationships due to no fault divorce states like Delaware and they are just killing the future of families.  Men don't want to be reduced to sperm donors, and women shouldn't feel like men don't appreciate them.

We all need to just step back and look at what we are doing people.  Especially when children are involved.  Stop being selfish and think of all the children we will teach that a mother and father living apart is an acceptable solution while the kids darn well feel it is not.  We can kid them, we can tell them anything.  They are NOT stupid.  We make their lives hell for our mistakes.  Let's get real people and understand marriage is much more serious than looking forward to a divorce party.