Not all endings are happy.  When it happens to you, this point can be painful.  Recently I lost something dear to me, it could have been someone, but you get the point. You invest so much of your life into something or someone and when things don’t work out, when it ends sadly you are left alone to deal with an emotional wave.  Sometimes you need someone to comfort you, and in this world you may find that you don’t have the strength to deal with it on your own. 

For me personally I’m confused.  I don’t know why someone would want to hurt me like they have.  To take away something or someone that means so much to you, to serve someone else’s selfish needs seems inhuman. 

I’ve often questioned humanity and the people I’ve come in contact with in life.  To wives running over husbands and shooting them, to women that drown their children I’ve often asked myself, why?  Sadly for me I find the answer is one that frustrates me.  Selfishness.  I see that always leads to someone having their happiness stolen from them, and ultimately if justice is done, the selfish party ends up with much less than they had before they decided to act on their selfish desire.

The unhappy ending, how many of us can claim to be on track to a happy ending?  Is your life where you want it to be?  Are your best laid plans coming to pass?  For all your plotting and scheming do you know you will be happy in the end?   Even if you get what you are after, will that mean you will be happy?

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